Sunday, February 12, 2012

The Liquid of Life!!


Winters were over and this climatic transition brought with it some agility to us in the valley where harsh winters benumb hoi polloi. Mornings became indulging and days longer. Asra’s call early in the morning woke me up that day. They had planned for a treat, with me as host. I was obliged to entertain them for certain reasons. Hosting a treat may be a burden but the reason for regale is mostly majestic. I always used to be in the category of people who give others this imperial feeling with a ting of neighbor’s jealousy. I never wanted to miss the chance to have the gallant feel.
With a broad smile on his face and a newspaper in his hand, my father came home to show everyone the newspaper carrying the list of students selected in the engineering entrance examination. I was among the first few in the list and that was enough for everyone in the family to feel proud of. That day, I was the prince who was well aware of his not so long lasting status. I took the expedience and before I asked for a new bike, keys of Bajaj Pulsar were handed over to me to make my day and add to the jealousy of my friends, as if my result was less for them to brook. Never was I that happy earlier. Mumma and didi also contributed, with some cash, to the treat I promised my friends. I was happy and in a mood to give everything to make this feeling last longer. I started with a little charity to the street beggars in the neighborhood and rode my bike to reach the venue that my friends choose for party.  
In the excitement, I left much before the time we decided to reach the stipulated place. I enjoyed almost everything that came on my way, like I was seeing them for the first time. All of a sudden everything was bright. Things that I always ignored started appearing worth a notice.  “Donate Blood, Save Lives”, one of those tag lines I would generally ignore but this time, when I seemed interested in everything around. I stepped into the camp which was organized by local blood bank. Inside the camp, I could see the young enthusiastic volunteers and donors. The real meaning of giving and the feelings associated with this art was more expressed inside this camp. I could learn and experience the joy of giving something priceless to the people who may not be known to you. The joy that can never be, justifiedly expressed in words. The destiny may not relate us with some people but we choose to get related to them by our blood. The organizers and young volunteers in the camp taught me that social work holds much more value than simple charity. We are never poor enough for former. I laid on the bed and a pint of blood was taken to give me much more in return.
I was hero among my friends that day and the blood donation added more praise. After having good time with them, I left for home. On my way back, a rash load carrier hit me while negotiating a blind cut on the road near my home. I laid down unconscious in the pool of blood on a road which is not less familiar with the color of the liquid that is shed on its surface day in and out. The people in the locality raised alarm and I was taken to the hospital emergency. Patient’s blood type is rare and unfortunately not available in the blood bank, said the concerned doctor who came running out of ICU to tell this to my parents who were lost in deep sorrow and grief, wondering how time could play such game in a blink. The other blood banks also responded negatively to the blood group which was type negative, except for one which was conducting blood camp in the nearby locality. Luckily, they received one donor in their camp with the blood group matching mine. Blood was infused into my body immediately and I had a new life. To my surprise, the blood bank was the same where I donated blood in the morning with intent to save some precious life. The blood was mine, which would, otherwise, have been lost on the road that sucks blood like a thirsty crow and the life saved was none but mine… 
Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) taught us: "Khairan nasu maiyan fa un naas" (The best among us are those who help others) which Iqbal rightly expressed in his poetry as:

                                     Hain log wohi jahan mein achey
                                     Aatey hein jo kaam dosron ke...
It took me an experience to learn what it means, but then we don't always need to suffer in order to make this planet beautiful.